Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Mean Trainer Pants

This weekend I finally got us up to the horse park for some XC schooling! My dear sweet husband agreed to come along as ground person, and I had big ideas about practicing our Magic Gallop over some actual cross country jumps, and perhaps even schooling a bunch of BN fences. 

Dino warmed up great. I focused on getting him forward, up in the bridle, and tucking his hind legs under his body. After trotting and cantering around a big open area in each direction, he felt ready to get started jumping. I decided to trot him over a wee baby coop, continue on to a wee baby log jump, and then circle around through the water complex on our way to a wee baby brush box. 

Easy, right?

Not so much when your pony's last experience of "going out somewhere to jump XC" involved a hell of a lot of not jumping, and you go into the ride with the attitude of, "I'll just see how he feels to the fences." This was my first and fatal mistake. 

he's so freakin' cute though! 
Dino was balky and spooky and not entirely convinced that his job was to go OVER the tiny jumps. There was a lot of propping and almost-stopping and awkward bunny hops. There was a lot of him spooking at the ground around the water complex, and dancing side to side at the edge of the water just absolutely sure that it was filled with gators. 

Instead of heading towards those first few fences bound and determined to ride my pony over no matter what, I waited for him to take the lead. He didn't. I needed to put on my Mean Trainer Pants. I didn't. Needless, to say the ride started out with some struggling. 

So, we moved around the course, picking and choosing the smallest fences with the best footing since the previous day's rain had made a lot of the takeoffs and landings a muddy, slippery mess. I didn't need to give Dino any more excuses not to jump! 

When I rode aggressively like a Mean Trainer, he jumped. When I was a pansy and took my leg off and rode backwards, he did not. 

This seems like a lesson I should have figured out by now. I guess I'm a slow learner!

I also noticed a bad habit that was causing me a LOT of issues, and that I hadn't quite understood that I was doing until now. At one point as I was cantering up to a jump, I lost the feeling of Dino being in the bridle. Instead of kicking him up to the bit, I MOVED MY HANDS BACK until I felt connected again. It was an eye-opening moment to become aware of what I was doing and why, and from then on I was able to analyze what was happening on the way to each fence. Could I feel Dino in the bridle? Yes? Keep going. No? KICK HIM UP! This little bit of self-awareness was a total game changer for me! 

I heart logs.
Despite a lot of frustration, I was able to improve things greatly by the end of the ride. We were able to string together several jumps in a row with a confident, easy canter, jump up and down banks, and canter through the water. That day, I had to be happy with being able to make the pony jump the jumps, even though I wasn't gleefully galloping over BN houses and tables. By the end of the ride, I was eyeing up the bigger fences, confident that next time we'd have a much better starting point to our schooling. Next time I'll be wearing my Mean Trainer Pants! 


  1. mean trainer pants 4 lyfe! i hate self fulfilling prophesies but somehow they're so hard to avoid lol. seems like you got a lot of great ideas from the school tho, and also quite a lot of really good moments!! he looks fantastic over that coop!

  2. i too lose my brain without someone there to tell me what to do (Hence why I pay Sally so often LOL). I know my limitations and dont think i can even fit in my mean trainer pants (HA). Great job for you to get him over stuff! I know the feeling and it is so disheartening when you have a bad jump day and then go back to jump. You guys look adorable though! AND YAY You got him over stuff. And figured stuff out! He is stinking the cutest!

  3. Wahoo! It's always cool/crazy when you realize you are doing something that is counterproductive. Glad you pulled those britches up and got it done with gusto!

  4. Hell yeah for that moment of self awareness! I get those from time to time with my riding and I always wonder why the HELL I can't get them MORE often lol They're always such game changers.

  5. I do that too... What? Things aren't going well? Let me go to my hands!
    Oddly enough, that's always the wrong answer.
    Good for you for feeling that out yourself! You and Dino will be back to where you were in no time!


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